There was a woman called Alex and she met a guy called Jordan at her badminton club. He was friendly and good at small talk. As the weeks went on Alex found herself thinking about Jordan more and more, she didn’t actually find him physically attractive and she didn’t even speak to him that much but there was something that made her think about him a lot. Even when she was shattered from a busy week travelling for work and didn’t feel like going to badminton, Alex would still

“ There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens ” - Ecclesiastes 3:1 The final day of our holiday came like a bolt out of the blue. It shouldn’t have really because we all knew the date of our flight home. However, there is a saying that time flies when you are having fun. We were in the sun, waking up when we wanted, not having to rush to do school runs or catch buses or trains to work. We spent the days having fun, visiting places to lear

You may have heard of the recent saga surrounding a family that consists of a very famous ex-footballer and an equally famous former popstar. If you haven’t, then their son exposed them as allegedly being controlling with the family and performative. His mom also allegedly stole his wife's first dance at their wedding. Her son later described this “first wedding dance”, stating that his mom “ danced very inappropriately on me in front of everyone. I've never felt more uncomfo

It’s the call with the devastating news that stops time. It’s the discovery that you wish you could just cover back up. It’s the betrayal that cuts like a knife. It’s the rejection that keeps you up at night. It’s the hurt and pain that causes nightmares and flashbacks. It’s these life events that rock our soul and send us into states of depression, anxiety and maladaptive behaviours.  Life can be beautiful and fun but it can also be very hard with shattered dreams or poverty

If you use social media you have probably seen the recent Druski skit. Druski is a comedian and his recent skit is him as a mega church pastor. Some people were offended and said he was mocking God. Others said he wasn’t mocking God and weren't offended. Personally I wasn’t offended, I saw the skit as mocking false pastors, not mocking God. Sometimes there is truth in comedy and I think this skit does that. It holds a mirror up to some churches and their pastors and highlight

“ The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit ” (Psalms 34:18) They’ve done it again and you’re wondering why you gave them another chance. Whether it’s a long term marriage or relationship that has betrayal through lying and cheating, or through abuse. Maybe it's the guy where everything seemed perfect but he ghosted you after three dates. You could be left asking the same question… Why do I attract men like this? Well the first place to look is how